18 07, 2024

My personal reflections on how IFS could work for ME

By | 2024-09-29T11:16:30+11:00 July 18th, 2024|Psychology theory|0 Comments

My current therapist (who I have named Aitkens to protect their identity) has sent me a link to an article about IFS (Internal Family Systems) on the APS website. It is certainly interesting to read [...]

11 07, 2024

Interesting conversation!! Chatting with a mental health professional about me and IFS

By | 2024-09-29T11:16:42+11:00 July 11th, 2024|Psychology theory|0 Comments

My psychiatrist called my sexual assault counsellor out on IFS (Internal Family Systems) today. He had read the book that I was recommended and told me he had never heard such a load of nonsense. [...]

25 06, 2023

Validate your own feelings – the ACT approach

By | 2023-06-25T22:57:48+11:00 June 25th, 2023|Mindfulness, Psychology theory|0 Comments

One of the things that make ACT (Acceptance and Commitment Therapy) so useful is the fact that I think it can be a kind of 'validation' for your thoughts and feelings. If you are feeling [...]

2 10, 2022

How (and why) to transform anxiety avoidance

By | 2022-10-02T21:05:01+11:00 October 2nd, 2022|Mindfulness, Psychology theory|0 Comments

The most interesting thing that I have come to learn about anxiety is that it can be a signal that something transformative has the potential to happen. Anxiety avoidance is understandable. Because the sensation of [...]

2 05, 2020

Cognitive Behaviour Therapy CBT for maladaptive thought processes

By | 2020-05-05T20:43:25+11:00 May 2nd, 2020|Psychology theory|0 Comments

This post is about a tried and true psychological therapy approach that I believe can result in big changes in the way that you engage with the world. Or how you feel about it. I [...]

12 09, 2019

Strategies for the fight, flight, freeze response

By | 2019-09-12T17:01:05+11:00 September 12th, 2019|Psychology theory|0 Comments

Have you ever been in the situation where you are engaging in a social situation and someone says something to you or does something to you, that makes you feel uncomfortable or challenges your self-image, [...]

29 08, 2019

Our psychological relationship with money explained

By | 2023-07-10T21:34:36+11:00 August 29th, 2019|Psychology theory, Work and career|0 Comments

How do you feel about money? I am guessing that you quite like it! In the West, it could be argued that we are obsessed with money. I wanted to delve a little further into [...]